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Give Up

When most people want to attract Mr. or Ms. Right, they often make a list of action steps. They add new activities, join dating services, write singles adds. They may start an exercise routine or buy new clothes to try to look better. They tell their friends that they are "in the market".

Seldom do people think of giving up something as a way to attract Mr. or Ms. Right. Well, this is not entirely true. People may give up such things as smoking or overeating. But the kind of "Giving Up" I mean here is not about external things or behaviors, but about our beliefs, attitudes and feelings. Giving up something in one of these three areas is more likely to lead you to Mr. or Ms. Right.

Five things to give up in order to attract Mr. or Ms. Right:

1. Give up anger at the opposite sex. You can tell when someone has a chip on their shoulder. And yet, many people who are angry and disappointed with the opposite sex think their feelings are invisible. If you can truly give up the anger you have a much better chance of attracting the partner you want.

2. Give up on your past relationships. Can you tell when someone is unavailable or ambivalent about dating because of an unfinished relationship? Most people can. If you hope that one of your past partners will come back, others will be able to tell. The Mr. / Ms. Right you want will surely want a completely available partner. You'll be hard pressed to attract him or her until you are completely available.

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3. Give up trying to be perfect in order to attract a mate. As long as you think that your body, your pocketbook or your emotional well being have to be in perfect shape in order to be loved, you will remain alone. A state of perfection can seldom be achieved. You are just peachy as you are for some lucky person out there.

4. Give up protecting yourself from hurt. Lots of singles devise all sorts of tests to make sure that potential partners won't hurt them the way they were hurt in the past. This never works because people know when they are being tested and will either fake it or fail on purpose. Instead, become the type of person who is seldom mistreated and who can set strong, clear boundaries.

5. Give up looking for a relationship. Looking for a relationship is like looking for a needle in a hay stack. Although singles adds and dating services have some success, most people still meet their life partner by chance. Your best bet for finding Mr. or Ms. Right is to have a wonderful life.

Your Relationship Coach,
Rinatta Paries

"Copyright Rinatta Paries, 1998-01. This article was originally published  by Coach Rinatta Paries in The Relationship Coach Newsletter, designed to inspire, educate and coach both singles and couples in attracting and sustaining healthy, loving, fulfilling relationships. To have this weekly e-zine delivered to your e-mail, subscribe at www.WhatItTakes.com."

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