The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit? In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

Stress Reduction for Cultivating the Neutral Mind
by Debra Cohen, LCSW

Everyday it seems that there is never enough time and that situations and other people increase our tension. Most of stress is how we respond to it and not just "out there".

Remember it is much easier to nip something in the bud than to deal with stress after it flowers into physical symptoms or a bad mood. If you get into a funk, sometimes it can last for days and it's often hard to break free of it. When you can "catch" the negative moment beginning you have a great shot at stopping it from taking you down. I've found these helpful for myself as well as my clients:

1) If you feel a certain "mood" beginning (ie depression, anger,

discouragement) try to do something physical such as go running, swim,or even clean. It's good to do something that will tune up your nervous and glandular system .

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2) There are two breathing exercises from yoga that are very helpful to cultivate a neutral mind. One is called "Alternate nostril breathing" and the other is called "Breath of Fire". You can learn these from a yoga class or video or write yogabreathing@sendfree.com

3) Identify and write down the mental tape loops that you find yourself repeating. By knowing what these are you can watch them instead of taking them as your own identity. The more you "see" the dramas the less you react from within them.

4) Keep a notebook of inspiring anecdotes, quotes and tips. This helps to boost one's spirit and also to feel connected with others that have dealt with similar feelings.

Debra Cohen, LCSW

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